Plus, my October favorites and the cozy jacket that's in my cart.

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	Forwarded this email? Subscribe here for more Three Denim Finds, Plus What’s on My Shopping Radar Plus, my October favorites and the cozy jacket that's in my cart. Alisha Ramos Oct 29   READ IN APP   This letter is part of the Style & Design column at Downtime. The first items to bow out of your closet once you start showing a baby bump are, inevitably, your jeans. As someone who lives in denim most days, this feels like a small identity crisis every time. Downtime is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Upgrade to paid For my first pregnancy, I went hard on purchasing maternity jeans that were over-the-belly. While these were comfortable, my main frustration was not being able to find denim styles that felt “in” and current. I suddenly owned a bunch of pairs of straight-leg denim that looked just okay on me. Below are a few of the tricks I’ve been relying on, followed by three denim styles I’ve been wearing on rotation from today’s partner, Shopbop. Whether you’re expecting, postpartum, or just experiencing a bit of body flux, these ideas apply. 3 Styling Tricks for Jeans The hair-tie hack. Loop a hair tie through your buttonhole and around the button to add a couple inches of breathing room. Works until around 15 weeks, depending on the jeans and your bump. The button-fly fix. This one’s for the brave: if your jeans have buttons instead of a zipper, unbutton as many as needed and wear them low on your hips. I’ve seen some chic moms use this trick who aren’t afraid to go bare-bellied. The low-slung approach. Low-rise styles have quietly evolved from 90’s Christina Aguilera in Dirrty-era danger zones into relaxed, slouchy silhouettes that can work with a bump. Since the waistband sits just under the belly, you can often wear your regular size into the second trimester. Think undone, not exposed. (AGOLDE make my favorite pair!) 3 Great Pairs of Denim I’ve Added to My Closet 1. The Jeans That Contain a Magic Trick: Still Here Buckle Jeans T-shirt | Suede Jacket | Wide Leg Jeans | Green Beaded Bag | Studded Mules Why they’re great: Not only do these jeans feature a cool silver hardware buckle as the closure (hence the name), but they also have an ADJUSTABLE WAIST thanks to button fasteners on the sides of your waist. This is true denim innovation!! These features are best shown in a video demo, so here’s my best attempt, below, lol…. How I’m wearing them: This wide, relaxed style looks best with a tighter-fitting tee; I’m wearing an Eterné boyfriend tee here (a bit more relaxed), with a Reformation suede jacket on top, Tory Burch studded mules, 70’s style sunglasses, and a green beaded bag. I had the jeans hemmed and sized up from a 27 to a 30, though I probably could have gone with a 29. The adjustable tabs make the sizing pretty forgiving. The mules, btw, are hay ride approved. || A moment for this cool bag! What I’d wear this to: Weekend coffee runs or a casual breakfast date. 2. The Jeans That Feel Like Sweatpants: Rag & Bone Miramar Terry Sofie Ankle Jeans Barn Jacket | Flowy Blouse | Sweatpants Jeans! | Pointed Ankle Boots | Sunglasses This bag got many compliments. The smaller version of this bag is so so good too. Why they’re great: At first glance, I thought these were actual jeans. Upon unboxing: surprise! They’re made of stretchy French terry that looks like denim but feels like sweatpants. A revelation. (Apparently, these are the viral “sweatpants jeans”; I was completely unaware.) How I’m wearing them: I love this icy gray color; it’s unexpected yet looks great paired with warm fall tones like creams and browns. I’m styling mine with the perfect heeled boot from Staud, an ethereal boho top from Sea, a more structured Staud barn jacket, and my new favorite bag that fits everything, a Coach suede tote. I got mine hemmed and sized up from a 27 to a 30, but I could’ve gone with a 29 since these are so stretchy and roomy. What I’d wear this to: A work meeting or shopping with a rambunctious toddler. :) 3. The Ultimate Wardrobe Staple: The Levi’s Dad Jean. Suede Jacket | Graphic Tee | Levi’s Dad Jeans | Studded Birkenstocks | Suede Tote Bag Why it’s great: I love the fit of these. They’re not too relaxed, but just relaxed enough. A classic pair of jeans. Plus, Levi’s have a magic way of making your butt look good. :) How I’m wearing them: Continuing to lean into the 70s vibe with studded Birkenstocks, the same suede jacket, suede tote bag, and a groovy graphic tee from Mother. I got these hemmed and sized up from a 27 to a 31, and they fit just right (Levi’s tend to run snug on me). What I’d wear this to: Weekend family outings—playgrounds, farms, birthday parties, errands—the usual circuit. Collectively, these outfits have allowed me to keep dressing like myself through the second trimester. You’d barely notice the bump unless you squint, which I kind of love, not because I’m hiding it, but because I’m grateful to still feel like ME in jeans. Have you discovered any denim tricks or favorite styles for a transitional stretch (pregnancy or otherwise)? I’d love to hear in the comments. Leave a comment Thanks to Shopbop for sponsoring today’s letter. Btw, they’re having an up to 40% off sale that ends tonight. Here’s what else is on my radar this week… Unsurprisingly, I’ve been really leaning into comfortable, basic pieces. This perfect tee I’ve mentioned before has been on rotation. Turns out GAP makes a good maternity t-shirt! I like that this one is thick, perfect for colder weather and layering under jackets. These are my favorite maternity leggings; I live in them on the weekends. The Donni baby rib scallop pants are another maternity MVP at the moment. (ALISHA10 for 10% off) This is my favorite underwear brand right now. They’re comfortable, soft, and they’ve washed well. Plus, they’re fun! I have two sets from them: this one and this one! (ALISHA15 for 15% off) What I’m eyeing and buying… I saw these heavy-duty winter boots in person in NYC, and they’re gorgeous. Love the fun laces on this pair, too. This cardigan looks perfect for Thanksgiving and the holidays. (This one has similar vibes for $40. This one, too.) I just purchased this long, cozy sherpa jacket. It’s now pretty much sold out everywhere, but I found some more on backorder. I also bought this less pricey option to compare the two jackets, and will keep one. (Here’s a similar sherpa coat from L.L. Bean.) Jenni Kayne is on major sale at Shopbop. This oversized sweater is one of my cozy favorites to wear with leggings. This green wool sweater has been on my wishlist. (ALISHA10 for 10% off) Madewell’s got a few good basics right now, like this brown cardigan, rust-red tee, and a striped knit polo I’ve been wearing over leggings or drapey pants. Because the little ones can’t be forgotten… It’s getting chilly at night here, so I got Lily these flannel PJ’s from a favorite kids’ brand. There’s a 30% off sale for J.Crew Passport holders right now. I bought two of these cozy leggings we love for Lily for $11 (!!). [Note: They fit snug but have some stretch.] The brand Lewis kindly gifted us this matching sweatset. How cute is the print?! What’s been your closet staple this month? Leave a comment PREVIOUSLY ON DOWNTIME: Everything I'd Put on A Baby Registry Now Alisha Ramos · Oct 22 Putting together a baby registry can be one of the most exciting and daunting tasks for a parent-to-be. There’s just so much stuff out there to choose from. Excited friends send spreadsheets filled with product recs. 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