Gayle Kabaker is a painter, writer, teacher and visual storyteller Last Chance: Beautiful Imperfections, Paint With Me On Sunday.Painting Bad Bunny and drawing with kids in Miami...
I don’t often paint anything very topical, but I couldn’t resist painting Bad Bunny. It was really fun to try to capture the chaos around him in a simple way. I feel like this is my mission, and our mission when I teach with Jennifer Orkin Lewis : how to simplify in a way that is fun and captures the essence of the thing, person, place, or moment. I’m excited about our upcoming workshop this Sunday with our good friend Samantha Dion Baker. Jennifer and I will be painting from travels to Bali and Paris, and Sam will be making her own interpretation of our photos. It’s going to be such fun to see all this variety of styles and ways to handle interpreting a photo to a painting. If you can’t make it live at 1 pm EST, you can choose the video-only option. All levels and ages are welcome. We love when kids come too! Donation based pricing.We’re suggesting $40, but we want anyone who wants to come to be able to join us - so really. Pay what you can!
Speaking of kids… I spent the last five days in Miami with my daughter and my granddaughters, ages 2 and 5, and some of their friends. It was amazing to be warm, be in the water, and feel the sun. Now it’s back to cold Massachusetts with almost a foot of snow coming. Sigh.
I showed Mona how to see the shapes on the ocean and waves. Sometimes we use our own sketchbooks, sometimes we used our shared sketchbook. She draws on the left, and I draw on the right. She always tells me to draw slower! “Slow down, Gigi!” She wants to copy what I am doing so she can understand it. Then she makes it her own. SUCH fun!
We drew in our sketchbooks a lot! I bought extras for Mona’s friends and in case we met any other kids - which of course we did. This boy, Emmett, was at the pool with his sketchbook and he was happy to join us. At not even 7, his drawing ability was kinda astounding. He gave me this Spider-Man drawing :)  
There’s still a few spots left for my workshop at my place in Western Massachusetts in June.
I hope to see some of you on Sunday! XO Gayle Invite your friends and earn rewardsIf you enjoy Paint What You Love, share it with your friends and earn rewards when they subscribe.
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Recs #118: The darkly comic househunting thriller you didn't know you needed
Recs #118: The darkly comic househunting thriller you didn't know you neededA review of "Best Offer Wins" by Marisa Kashino. Plus, loads of reads, links, and recs from the week
This is the weekly recs newsletter at Downtime, a roundup of books, culture, media, and other delights. These posts are available exclusively for paid subscribers. Consider upgrading to join us: I’m offering a 20% discount on annual subscriptions for the next 72 hours, so now’s the perfect time. Happy weekend! I realize it’s almost March, but do we have time to squeeze in a mini Feb/March book club before I head out on maternity leave?¹ I’ll set up a discussion post thread for us to chat about the book at the beginning of March.
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Under the paywall this week: A roundup of recent reads, watches, and listens - including my current TV obsession. Plus, I’m trying something new and putting a few bonus “recs from my life this week” at the end (e.g. recipes I cooked, things I actually purchased, and other helpful bits).
Downtime ReadsThis week I read… Best Offer Wins by Marisa Kashino. If you need a book to pick you up out of a reading slump, this is it. It’s a darkly comic thriller all about, of all things, househunting. As a D.C. local, I was especially excited for this debut novel, which promised the kind of hyper-specific detail that only someone who really knows the area can deliver. It did not disappoint!
At the center is Margo, a protagonist in the vein of Amy Dunne from Gone Girl: calculating, manipulative, and then, rather quickly, frightening. She and her somewhat milquetoast husband, Ian, have lost out on eleven offers in D.C.'s brutal post-COVID real estate market. Her dream of owning the perfect home and starting a family has curdled into something darker, and when she uncovers a secret about the owner of the house she covets, she decides blackmail is a perfectly reasonable next step. Kashino previously covered real estate for the Washingtonian, and it shows; the housing market details are painfully accurate. If you've ever been through the househunting process, you'll recognize every excruciating moment and laugh in spite of yourself. I think this book succeeds in holding up a funhouse mirror to a very specific millennial anxiety: the desire to accumulate material wealth and achieve the promised millennial dream (a good job, homeownership, a family) in an economic environment where that feels nearly impossible. Given today's housing market, can we blame Margo for her descent into madness, even as things escalate from charmingly delusional to full-on unhinged? Getting to watch that spiral unfold through Margo's own first-person narration is what made this book such a fun read. This bit in particular made me laugh—both because of its absurdity and because I could relate to Margo’s wine-fueled Pinterest deep dive into designing “her dream home”:
Just how dramatically absurd, yet also somehow relatable, Margo’s inner thoughts are made me laugh out loud many times (at one point, she says, “If we can’t have this house, I will literally lie on the floor and fucking die.”). At other times, though, her voice turns jarringly hateful and dark; it gave me chills and put me more on edge as the storyline progressed. The epilogue was particularly juicy and twisted. I can’t wait to watch Greta Lee play this character on the screen. After reading the book, I think she was perfectly cast. If you’re in need of a fast-paced, darkly humorous, contemporary read with Gone Girl and Beef vibes, I think you’ll enjoy this book. What are you reading? I’d love to hear in the comments! Next I’m reading… I needed a palate cleanser after reading a dark thriller, so I’m currently listening to One & Only by Maureen Goo, a perfectly sweet romance. So far, my initial take is that if you enjoyed The Idea of You, you may enjoy this. I love that the protagonist is 40, and the LA setting makes me want to go back for a visit. As for my hardcopy read, I’m itching for something more literary, so perhaps Lost Lambs by Madeleine Cash or Brawler by Lauren Groff. New on my TBR list… Too many. On Morrison by Namwali Serpell is a primer on Toni Morrison’s works, written by an English professor at Harvard. It makes me wish I could take her class, but an independent study may have to do. Mother Mary Comes to Me by Arundhati Roy sounds like a compelling memoir about a complicated mother-daughter relationship. For more “fun” reads, I have Too Blessed to Stress by Alli Hoff Kosik on my radar, as well as Lady Tremaine by Rachel Hochhauser, a retelling of Cinderella’s evil stepmother. As you can see, there’s an abundance of great books this year; it’s a great problem to have! (ICYMI, shared a roundup of my most anticipated 2026 releases here.)
Shout out to Sara Hildreth for inspiring this “week in reading” format. I always look to her posts when I’m feeling stuck on what to read next!
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