As the days grow shorter and the air becomes sharper, it's only natural for many of us to feel mentally taxed. At least, I've always struggled with staying inside and slowing down in the winter. As someone with extreme anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), I often ruminate on negative thoughts and let my anxiety win when I have too much time to think.
It's strange because, even when things begin to go well for me, winter somehow brings this sense of catastrophe I can't escape. I begin to feel uncomfortable in my body, and all I want to do is sleep. It must be the cold air that begs me not to move my body, bringing me back to that sense of insecurity I had in high school.
While I take medication for my mental health symptoms, there's only so much big pharma can do to save me from The Dark Ages (see: November through March). That's why, over the years, I've come up with a few reliable ways to get relief from the negativity—or at least channel it into something else.
Winter is always tough, but 2025 has been tougher than usual. So, if you're in need of a little assist, feel free to borrow one of my strategies for coping. As with everything, this winter too will pass.
Throw yourself into a TV show.
It's funny because I actually don't know if bingeing a show and rotting on your couch is the healthiest way to go about seasonal depression. But, hey, if it works, it works. And, for me, it fucking works.
When I find a TV show I love—especially in the winter—I completely immerse myself in that world. Last year, it was Girls. In case you missed it, the show follows four young women navigating their 20s in Brooklyn, New York. Between seasons one and six, I completely became the show. Even if it was just for brief 30-minute interludes, I forgot about the wallowing depression I was accustomed to during most Decembers.
Listen to a comfort album.
Ever since I was a kid, I always found solace in music. Though it wasn't until the Covid winter of 2021 that music changed how I existed—especially amid my winter blues. Back then, I started walking and listening to Taylor Swift's evermore album front to back. I learned that immersing myself in one of my favorite albums was a simple way to add more predictability to the darker months. I didn't know what would happen to me tomorrow (anxiety fuel), but I knew that after "gold rush" came "'tis the damn season." That was more than enough.
When you know an album from front to back you know that for the next however many minutes, you are transporting into another world entirely. Unlike a new show, in this one, you know what has happened, what is happening, and what's next. That's very soothing.
Keep reading for 5 more tips for managing winter anxiety.
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