My mind always goes to the worst-case scenario. How can I stop catastrophizing?
Any sign of turbulence means your plane is going down. Your boss sighed at you, so you're bound to get a call from HR. Your headache is…wayyyy more than a headache. Welcome to catastrophizing 101, folks.
In case you didn't know, catastrophizing is when your brain jumps to the worst possible outcome in any situation, says psychotherapist Gianna LaLota, LMHC. It's a type of cognitive distortion, or a faulty line of thinking, that can happen to the best of us. Seriously—anyone can catastrophize, but you may be more prone to this if you have an anxiety disorder or depression, says LaLota.
We all have intrusive thoughts sometimes, but catastrophizing takes this a step further by assuming the worst-case scenario will happen and causing you to ruminate over that, says psychotherapist Kristen Jacobsen, LCPC. Plus, catastrophizing is usually rooted in things that are pretty legit. Like, maybe you're jumping to conclusions because of past experiences where things went wrong, LaLota says. Or, maybe your mind is interpreting anxiety or fear as evidence that you're in actual danger, she adds.
Catastrophizing is also your mind's way of trying to get ahead of a bad outcome by preparing you for the hard feelings that come with it, like disappointment or even more anxiety, says Jacobsen. For instance, spending the entire week before a trip worrying about the airline losing your luggage and convincing yourself that that's productive because, hey, it could happen!
Despite what anxiety would have you believe, worrying about the future won't actually change the outcome, but it will almost definitely ruin the present. Catastrophic thinking can, unfortunately, be all-consuming like that, LaLota says.
Even though you can't always stop thoughts from popping in your head, you can stop the worst-case-scenario worry from spiraling out of control, notes LaLota. To get to that place of handling your catastrophic thinking better, here are therapist-backed tips you'll want to screenshot ASAP.
Keep reading for 9 tips on how to stop catastrophizing.
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